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June 13th, 2010 at 06:54 pm

Okay this is not money related, might be able to toss in a few money things but mostly this is just an attempt to purge my brain.

I AM Divorced!! And for the past 8 years I have given and given and got nothing in return (besides my son - so I would do it all over in a heart beat).

I have often been told while I was married that my now ex had no clue what he had in a wife and there are so many guys that would love to have me as there girl/woman and would love my son as their own.

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Well my ego is really being boosted. The big work weeks are here and the part timers are working full time and there is alot of round the clock projects going on. Well the Big NEWS is that I am now single. Seems to be the Thing to talk about.

In the last week I have been contacted by an old guy friend, and have meet two new guy friends. One of the new friends has had a crush for like 2 years now BUT being he is a true gentleman he has NOT acted on it. Well now that the big news is that I am single he has asked me to spend time with him. We are going to go to a movie here soon just not sure when. I would like to see Killers, and Letters to Juliet. I think I might have talked him into either taking me or renting letter to juliet later. We desided on Killers.

Truthfully I was being really judgemental about the guy who is going to take me to the movie and almost was like nah not going there, but as I get to know him more I am finding more and more I like about him.

He is taking a mini-vacation in the end of august and asked me to go with. I said maybe another time because school will be starting then and I cant miss the first days of school.

I have never been on a real vacation. I am really overdue for a mini-vacation or a vacation, so I am thinking it would be nice to go. Even if we are just going as friends. We have alot in common and I think we both could help the other improve/better oneself.

I am really excited for the prospect of going on a fun vacation with friends.

2 Responses to “Totally personal”

  1. whitestripe Says:
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    that must be very exciting for you. i hope everything goes to plan and you enjoy the new company (and attention!). but remember to take time out for yourself too. you don't want to dive back into something after such a terrible time dealing with your ex.

  2. Apprentice Bliss Hunter Says:
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    In my amateur opinion, I think you should enjoy yourself and go on fun dates and vacations - but just give yourself a year or so before committing to anything "serious". You need to put Ex well and truly behind you and be comfortable with who you are as a person on your own before committing to anything Big.

    But what do I know ? As a single man ! lol :-)

    As a side note, I've always being envious of the "Power" that attractive women have over men. It's almost like they have a Star Wars type lazer that just sucks us right in !!!! (Wish I had one too !)

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