Yesterday I requested the documents from a divorce lawyer. I finished completing them today. All I need to do is collect the last two years tax statements.
After completing the parenting plan today what do I see that my husband posted on Facebook:
I found this on Facebook
XXXXXXXXXXXX 's kitchen table is a coupon clipping nightmare. really? what great organizational skills you have. now i cant find the gift card for Papa Johns to have a pizza. if it is not one thing it is the next. when will it end. i know when it will end, but if i say it then people will say i am suicidal. and you know how everyone is looking out for everybody but them selves. MIND YOUR OWN F$%^ING BUSINES.
So I did it; I called and made the appointment. I meet with the lawyer on the 6th at 1:30pm.
Last Night I found he posted this on his Facebook:
XXXXXXXXXXXX the new age of me begins tonite.
When I got home his car was in the garage but he was not home and he would not answer his phone. Then later that night when he got home he was mean and was avoiding me. Was thinking he found out about me talking to a lawyer or he was still mad about the spliting of the bills thing, but I am guessing from the post this morning he did not find out about the lawyer because technically he would not have to deal with me, thus is frustration with me would have ended.
I am really shaky about starting this but I dont think I have much of a choice, after he came home from the last long term out of state job he had anger issues and this round they seem worse so I need to get out and get out now.
On a financial front I have two checks to clear before I can close the joint checking account. Then that leave the house, truck and his car in both our names.
I also called and left a message with a realtor I would like to use about calling me so that I can list our house. I plan to move any of my and my sons extra things into my grandmothers basement to clear out the house for listing. I am planning a rummage sale for the 17th but depending on how it goes with the realtor I might skip it and just plan a rummage sale for later.
Busy Day - Husband flipped out
March 31st, 2010 at 08:39 pm
March 31st, 2010 at 08:44 pm 1270068267
My thoughts are with you during this time of turmoil. I know that I find change of any kind (good or bad) difficult and I just need to take it day by day. I think you are doing the right thing for yourself and your son.
March 31st, 2010 at 09:57 pm 1270072645
We had updated our last home with nearly everything new. We thought the vinyl floor in the kitchen should be replaced. In fact, everything else was so nice, we skipped it and it was not an issue to the buyer who bid against another and paid us $500 over list. My point is: not everything you think needs to be done, does!
Good luck!