I did not want to spend hours looking through boxes looking for a tiny safe key or a debit card....

So I gave DH the ten dollars it would cost him to order a new debit card, well actually 9 dollars (3 one dollar bills, 5.75 in quaters, 2 dimes and 5 pennies) since that was all I had cash on me and in the house (can you say laundry money).

Well then he says really it is NO big deal. HUMMM it was a big enough deal that you repeatedly texted me in a rage at work but now it is NO BIG deal???

He would rather we spend $12 and order a new safe key....I know this is going to end up costing me 22 dollars because when the card is not in the safe I am still going to have to pony up the $10 to keep the peace.

Whatever, I had a headache; have to work all weekend and I just have no patients for his BS lately. It is like he is bipolar but really it is his PTSD. But after 3 years of dealing with the rage and bipolar type swings I really think I am getting to my limit.